Aging Well: Enjoying Life on a New Scale

Where — and how — do you want to live when your work and family responsibilities become simpler and you can make choices just for yourself?

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Imagine finally having a reduced work schedule, fewer family responsibilities and being free to make your own choices. That’s what happened to Grimaldi & Yeung clients William and Flora Dubcek. They had spent time raising their children and then, caring for William’s elderly mother, with whom they shared a two-family home. Because they had been thrifty, they had a number of options. Cautious by nature, they came to Grimaldi & Yeung for help in evaluating their choices and planning so they would not be a burden on their own children. We helped the Dubceks:

  • Sell the two-family home, which was too big to meet their needs.
  • Consolidate their savings, including separate retirement finds and a variety of small investments, including funds they inherited from William’s mother.
  • Locate and purchase a smaller home in the same neighborhood.
  • Resolve an ongoing dispute with William’s sister regarding their mother’s estate.
  • Preserve their independence and financial well-being as they grow older.
  • Establish decision-making criteria to realize the cherished dream of a second home in rural Pennsylvania.

Now the Dubceks are enjoying their lives, confident that they won’t be a burden to anyone.

Elder Law: Advanced Directives

Advanced directives are the simplest way to ensure that your wishes regarding your finances and health care are respected — even when you may no longer be able to speak for yourself. These allow you to appoint agents to handle your affairs and specify your wishes for various financial, legal and health care measures. Using advanced directives will provide you — and your family — with tremendous peace of mind.

Essential Advanced Directives include:

  • A Durable Power of Attorney (POA) allows you to designate a trusted person to manage financial affairs in the event that you are incapacitated.
  • A Health Care Proxy designates an agent to make any and all health decisions if you are unable to act on your own behalf. These include everything from routine care choices through end of life decisions.
  • A Living Will specifies the kinds of health care measures you want taken if you become seriously ill with no hope of recovery. This includes resuscitation orders and instructions regarding artificial nutrition and dehydration.
  • A HIPAA Release allows you to designate who may have access to your medical records and other information your doctors may have. This information must be held completely confidential by federal law. A HIPAA release is essential to help your agent have the essential information they need to make good care choices.
  • NYS Burial Designation allow you to appoint an agent to carry out your remains and make burial and funeral choices.
  • MOLST (Medical Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment): allows you to specify your preferences regarding CPR, intubation and ventilation, artificial hydration and nutrition, future hospitalization and antibiotics. The bright pink form must be completed and signed by a New York State licensed physician.

Your Grimaldi & Yeung attorney will create the legal documents needed to insure that your wishes are respected.